How to Feel Good By Chris Spink

How to feel good

The steps to feeling good are:

1) Awareness of how you feel. If it feels good, get more specific; but if it doesn’t, then

2) Allow. Accept what is and Love what is; there is nothing wrong with anything, and nothing needs to be fixed. All is well. You are just on the journey to where you want to be.

3) Go general. Find general thoughts about where you are now that feels better.

4) As you begin to feel better, you can then get more specific. Appreciate what is good in your life; focus on what is working for you and look at the positive aspects of your life.

5) Continue to be aware of how you feel and focus on feeling better and think your way to feeling good.

Here are some additional tips that will help you be more general and feel good:

  • Get more sleep
  • Drink more water
  • Be alone more often
  • Meditate and relax
  • Find more things that please you
  • Get outdoors more often
  • Breathe more deeply
  • Walk/exercise more often
  • Have more fun
  • Make time to pursue interests you feel passionate about

Exercise: Use the going general exercise throughout the day whenever you feel things aren’t feeling the way you want them to. Become aware of your thoughts when you aren’t feeling good and recognise that you are being too specific around that issue. So try and change your thoughts to more general ones such as, everything always works out for me in the end; the contrast is helping me focus on exactly what I want by showing me what I don’t want; I don’t have to fix everything right now etc.
Exercise: Write down as many things as you can that you appreciate in your life right now. Once you start, you will realise that this process does get easier and easier; that is the law of attraction working to bring more things that you appreciate into your awareness. Do this process whenever you want to improve your current point of attraction.
How responsible do you feel you are for your life and everything in it?

Are you willing to believe that you are 100% responsible for your life and that everything in your life has been created primarily by you, with the vibration you have been offering most of the time? (I am not suggesting you were always aware this was happening).
How does that make you feel – empowered, confused or afraid?

Do you believe in and understand the Law of Attraction and how it works? If there are any aspects of it that you do not understand, please write them down.

In what areas are you having problems with the Law of Attraction and creating what you want in your life?

What is it that you want in your life right now? Write down three things you want the universe to attract to you.

What do you believe the benefits will be from manifesting these desires and how will they make you feel?

Wishing you health, wealth and happiness,

Chris Spink

International Bestselling Author,
Law of Attraction and Self Hypnosis Course Instructor

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3 thoughts on “How to Feel Good By Chris Spink”

  1. Kay says:

    I have most desired a relationship the past 2 years, however that continues to elude me. I’ve focused on the things that I want. I’ve made myself available on various online dating websites. I’ve imagined and even tried to call on the woman of my heart, yet I am still without the companion I seek. What am I doing wrong?

  2. ManifestYourDesires says:

    Hi Kay, thank you so much for your comment. Firstly you are doing nothing wrong we are all on a journey to where we want to be and we never get it finished so we can’t get it wrong. You are in the perfect place for you right now. I know this for sure. You are certainly not alone with this. I know it feels like the universe is not responding to your desire, but the law of attraction is always responding to your major vibration. What most of us do when we want something is we just become more aware that we don’t have what we want. Which is what stops the desire from manifesting We don’t do this on purpose it is just how we have been trained to see the world. If you could get into a good feeling place on whatever subject then the relationship of your dreams is on its way to you. That good feeling place is what you are really after in a relationship so see that as a manifestation and trust that all is well Love your own company and find as much as you can in your life to appreciate and continue to do the exercises that I’ve set out in this blog they really do help. Love Chris

  3. Esme says:

    hi Chris – great answer for Kay – I can vouch for enjoying your own company – after my last partner died (28yr relationship then he got parkinson’s and dementia and I nursed him for 7 years)- I vowed and declared that I would NEVER get into another relationship – just wanted to enjoy life and have an occasional ‘friend’ here and there!!! Lo and behold – a neighbour down the road has come into my life and he is everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner, and I am also, for him!!! Had I tried going on dating sites etc., it could have caused confusion with finding the right vibration!!! Esme

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